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How to Talk with Your Health Care Providers

Talking with your doctor or health care providers about your medical care wishes is a discussion to have before a crisis occurs. Chances are that he or she is waiting for you to start the conversation. When you discuss your concerns and choices:

• Ask your doctor to explain treatments and procedures that may seem confusing before you complete your directives.

• Talk about pain management options.

• Let your doctor know you are completing your Advance Care Directive.

• Make sure your doctor is willing to follow your directives. The law does not force physicians to follow directives if they disagree with your wishes for moral or ethical reasons.

• Give your doctor a copy of your completed directives. Make sure your doctor knows the name and telephone number of your appointed health care agent.

• Assure your doctor that your family and your appointed health care agent know your wishes.

You may ask your doctor specifically:

• Will you talk openly and candidly with me and my family about my illness?

• What decisions will my family and I have to make, and what kinds of recommendations will you give to help us make these decisions?

• What will you do if I have a lot of pain or other uncomfortable symptoms?

• How will you help us find excellent professionals with special training when we need them (e.g., medical, surgical and palliative care specialists, faith leader, social workers, etc.)?

• Will you let me know if treatment stops working so that my family and I can make appropriate decisions?

• Will you still be available to me during unexpected medical emergencies?